The Skill of the Secret of Dying 

for Joyful Living

Those who succeed in ending their life did it for a reason, very valuable to them.

The reason may be the love for the person who betrayed them, or failure in career making their life unworthy of living, or (may be a foolish) attachment to a party for whose progress (?) their dying will bring martyrdom.

Irrespective of our adoring or condemning the reason, no one can disagree that they were not greedy, selfish & cunning bulldozing positive human values for seeking selfish wealth and other material benefits like most of the ‘LIVING’ people.

Remember when a child is born, all social relationships were zero. As the child grows all kinds of family, friends and other social relationships get developed.

The curiosity to understand and learn with open mindedness in a child decrease in magnitude as the child grows into a man or woman, father or mother, etc.

Without resorting to suicide, is it possible to die to all relationships that caused the reason to think of suicide and be born afresh as a child with the curiosity to understand and learn with open mindedness, but at our age?

In that case, how to handle those who caused the reason?

Willingly paying the price to distance yourself from those persons while starting afresh to develop positive relationships of your option, the skill of secret dying for joyful living can be acquired.

Since most of the people are money minded, just give them (lover or/and wife/husband, children, parents, friends, enemy, etc - unavoidable persons related to you before your dying) the money & other material benefits you can afford. You will be surprised how easy it will be to handle them. In fact, after some time, they may think that you live like a fool and may even start sympathizing. They can never understand your joy to develop new positive relationships without their hurdles.

If you start understanding and living for your natural needs and interests and not for elevating you in other’s view (induced needs & interests), you will be surprised how much you can curtail wasteful expenditure and easily fulfill the above condition. 

How can we move with the persons to whom we are dead in mind? Can we forget the past?

No one can forget the past unless something went wrong in the brain.

But one can have the freedom from the known – the past. It means you are not burdened or enslaved by the past. You can live to even positive relationships in the past.

That will be possible if you are your king and not slave to the attachments you developed in the past. To know more on ‘The Freedom from the known’, better read the same title by late J.Krishnamoorthy.

With your will and open minded sincere efforts, you can acquire the Skill of the Secret of Dying for Joyful Living.

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