Live your life

You will never succeed if you live to elevate yourself in others' view.. But live your life.

Beware that no two humans are alike in all respects. 

Its like no two electrons are alike in an atom.Hence comparing ourselves with others and trying to elevate ourselves in others' view is foolish in nature.

Respect for individual freedom implies respect for the differences between individuals.

Failure to come to terms with this reality will invite negative components
in the relationship of individuals and groups.

Insecurity feelings will tend to ignore this and will invite negative components.

Possessive feeling in love is one such negative component.

Possessive relationships are time bombs waiting to explode at the opportune moment. 

The social dimension of an individual demands interacting with others.

Any interaction between any two persons may involve exchange of tangible and intangible benefits/losses. Love also follows this rule.

The exchanges of both tangible and intangible benefits/losses intend to fulfill certain needs and interests.

The needs and interests may be natural or induced.

A life dominated by induced interest follow a robot program dictated by external factors. Robots don't live. They just obey a programme.

If one's life is mostly driven by induced interests it will become a robotic life. A robotic life is worse than animal life. In fact there is no life in it.

`I am above [or possess] you' becomes the programme of the robot identity.
This programme will subordinate human components. The impediments to the implementation of this programme are brutally removed.

No human life is either 100% human or 100% robot.
An individual life is the result of both components.

Exchange of tangible and intangible benefits/losses between two persons is a complex phenomenon fulfilling natural or/and induced needs.

A master-slave [or possessive] relationship between two persons implies enslavement of both to a common robot programme. 

Hence awareness demands freedom from robot influences.

Robot influences are the major culprits for most of human/nature tragedies.

Awareness helps to lead a simple creative life minimizing robot influences.

A creative life will help harmony with people and nature.

Any disharmony experienced by an individual with people and nature indicates a need for remedial measures towards harmony. The seed of insecurity feelings lies in such disharmony.

Failure to sense the need well in advance will pave the way for tragedy.

A non-robotic sensitive life is an insurance against such tragedies.

Love becomes a cherishing experience however long or short it may be without a need for accounting the loss and gain.

Enjoy love. Live your life.