Anger- A key to success

Next time you get angry, be happy that you have a wonderful key to success.

Without disconnecting the feelings, just start probing your anger.

Try to clearly identify the target of your anger. It may be a person or group of persons.

If your anger aims at a non human object, your probe will become more interesting.

Remember only sensitive people get angry and your getting angry shows that you have not lost your sensitivity.

The nature of your anger will give an idea of your sensitivity domain.

Once I scolded one of my colleagues in strong terms. To my surprise he didn't get angry with me. When the same person was scolded very mildly by another colleague, he was very angry with him. Reason? He believed that I was his true well-wisher and  would never be his competitor in any of his progress. The other colleague was viewed differently.

Your anger will give an idea of your interests related to your sensitivity domain and its relation with the prospective victims of  your anger.

Non human victims of your anger will give a better idea of your sensitivity domain interests.

Again your probing must find the time value of your anger.

When a person inadvertently dashes against you while walking, you may get angry
for few seconds and forget it even if you do not get an apology.

If you think that it was a wanton act of insult, the time value will increase depending on the perceived magnitude of insult.

Coming back to your sensitivity domain interests [SDI], they have the answers to ever interesting question of what you live for.

If you are not angry, this probe will not yield rich results.

If you analyze your SDI, you will experience an interesting exercise of segregating induced interests from interests arising out of  your natural needs.

Remember you are your king to your natural interests and slave to your induced interests.

Under induced interests you always aim to elevate yourself in the estimation of others.

In other words your probing of your anger will reveal king/slave dimensions in your personality.

If your anger is directly related to the induced interests, you are fighting for other man's [or woman's] views on you .

Once you have the courage to stop it, the energy for your success gets instantaneous increase.You will start living for you and not for others.

Next time you get angry, be happy.
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