Anger- A key to success

Next time you get angry, be happy that you have a wonderful key to success.

Without disconnecting the feelings, just start probing your anger.

Try to clearly identify the target of your anger. It may be a person or group of persons.

If your anger aims at a non human object, your probe will become more interesting.

Remember only sensitive people get angry and your getting angry shows that you have not lost your sensitivity.

The nature of your anger will give an idea of your sensitivity domain.

Once I scolded one of my colleagues in strong terms. To my surprise he didn't get angry with me. When the same person was scolded very mildly by another colleague, he was very angry with him. Reason? He believed that I was his true well-wisher and  would never be his competitor in any of his progress. The other colleague was viewed differently.

Your anger will give an idea of your interests related to your sensitivity domain and its relation with the prospective victims of  your anger.

Non human victims of your anger will give a better idea of your sensitivity domain interests.

Again your probing must find the time value of your anger.

When a person inadvertently dashes against you while walking, you may get angry
for few seconds and forget it even if you do not get an apology.

If you think that it was a wanton act of insult, the time value will increase depending on the perceived magnitude of insult.

Coming back to your sensitivity domain interests [SDI], they have the answers to ever interesting question of what you live for.

If you are not angry, this probe will not yield rich results.

If you analyze your SDI, you will experience an interesting exercise of segregating induced interests from interests arising out of  your natural needs.

Remember you are your king to your natural interests and slave to your induced interests.

Under induced interests you always aim to elevate yourself in the estimation of others.

In other words your probing of your anger will reveal king/slave dimensions in your personality.

If your anger is directly related to the induced interests, you are fighting for other man's [or woman's] views on you .

Once you have the courage to stop it, the energy for your success gets instantaneous increase.You will start living for you and not for others.

Next time you get angry, be happy.
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Navigate life to peace and happiness

To know if our life is moving forward or reverse will be an interesting exercise.  

When our life move towards objects likes peace, happiness, we move forward.

If our life move towards objects likes depression , sadness we move backward.

If we could know well in advance about the direction of our life we have the privilege of taking corrective steps.

By studying if our life is dominated by actions or reactions, we can acquire that privilege.

When you take a lead and act on it, it is action.
When you act as a reaction to a person or event, it is reaction.

Our life consists of both actions and reactions.

Actions and reactions by themselves may be positive [helping forward] or negative [assisting backward].

Also actions and reactions may have seeds of future actions and reactions.

Irrespective of the individual nature of actions and reactions, if one’s life is dominated by actions, that life is moving forward. On the other hand if reactions dominate then it is moving backward.

Actions caused by induced needs and interests may have potential negative seeds forcing us into a life trap of negative reactions perpetuating backward movement.

Actions and reactions motivated by natural needs and interests will contribute to forward movement while those motivated by induced needs and interests will cause backward movement. 

A study of magnitude and direction of all actions in our current life will help to identify the domination aspect in our life. Another study of the motivating factors of our actions and reactions will provide keys to corrective measures.

Let us navigate our life towards peace and happiness.  

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Live your life

You will never succeed if you live to elevate yourself in others' view.. But live your life.

Beware that no two humans are alike in all respects. 

Its like no two electrons are alike in an atom.Hence comparing ourselves with others and trying to elevate ourselves in others' view is foolish in nature.

Respect for individual freedom implies respect for the differences between individuals.

Failure to come to terms with this reality will invite negative components
in the relationship of individuals and groups.

Insecurity feelings will tend to ignore this and will invite negative components.

Possessive feeling in love is one such negative component.

Possessive relationships are time bombs waiting to explode at the opportune moment. 

The social dimension of an individual demands interacting with others.

Any interaction between any two persons may involve exchange of tangible and intangible benefits/losses. Love also follows this rule.

The exchanges of both tangible and intangible benefits/losses intend to fulfill certain needs and interests.

The needs and interests may be natural or induced.

A life dominated by induced interest follow a robot program dictated by external factors. Robots don't live. They just obey a programme.

If one's life is mostly driven by induced interests it will become a robotic life. A robotic life is worse than animal life. In fact there is no life in it.

`I am above [or possess] you' becomes the programme of the robot identity.
This programme will subordinate human components. The impediments to the implementation of this programme are brutally removed.

No human life is either 100% human or 100% robot.
An individual life is the result of both components.

Exchange of tangible and intangible benefits/losses between two persons is a complex phenomenon fulfilling natural or/and induced needs.

A master-slave [or possessive] relationship between two persons implies enslavement of both to a common robot programme. 

Hence awareness demands freedom from robot influences.

Robot influences are the major culprits for most of human/nature tragedies.

Awareness helps to lead a simple creative life minimizing robot influences.

A creative life will help harmony with people and nature.

Any disharmony experienced by an individual with people and nature indicates a need for remedial measures towards harmony. The seed of insecurity feelings lies in such disharmony.

Failure to sense the need well in advance will pave the way for tragedy.

A non-robotic sensitive life is an insurance against such tragedies.

Love becomes a cherishing experience however long or short it may be without a need for accounting the loss and gain.

Enjoy love. Live your life.